theambitiouswoman:

If you bought yourself flowers & little gifts, you wouldn’t accept someone who doesn’t

If you complimented & talked good about yourself, you wouldn’t accept someone who doesn’t

If you cared about your well being & love languages, you wouldn’t accept someone who doesn’t

If you took yourself on dates, you wouldn’t accept someone who doesn’t

If you cared about your feelings, you wouldn’t accept someone who doesn’t communicate

If you loved, respected & accepted yourself, you wouldn’t accept someone who doesn’t

It starts with you!!!!!!!


Someday I’ll get over it. #diary


theambitiouswoman:

A person who values themself has standards and remains exclusive

They don’t need attention from the masses because they know their worth

They understand that being accessible to everyone lowers their value

They are selective with who they date because they know it’s a reflection of them

They aren’t seeking superficial validation online because they don’t need it and most likely get it in real life

They make career choices that align with their passions and beliefs and don’t comprise their morals for a dollar

They understand that quality friendships are more important than a large circle of acquaintances

They love themselves and take care of their body, they don’t partake in hobbies that are unhealthy

They invest in their personal growth and education because they understand that expanding their knowledge and skills increases their value

They are mindful of how they spend their time and choose environments that nurture their growth rather than drain their energy

They don’t settle for mediocre and always strive for excellence in whatever they do

They avoid toxic relationships and environments

They are intentional with their energy and choose to share it with people that align with their values

They practice self discipline

They like being alone and understand that being alone is a time for reflection and recharging

They have very strong boundaries and demand respect in all interactions because they respect themselves first


deathandsensuality:

me whenever women do the most horrific, ungodly actions to get their revenge: she did what she had to do. 

(via neuro-lab)


theambitiouswoman:

scorpionlafemme:

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Who you date is a reflection of how you feel about yourself.


aidashakur:

The more you love yourself, the more you’ll detach from things that don’t love you and that’s a blessing

(via theambitiouswoman)